‘A Christmas Memory’ has guided my holidays for a decade. This is how


“Oh my,” exclaims the woman with shorn white hair and sherry-colored eyes as she stands by the kitchen window. “It’s fruitcake weather!”

So begins Truman Capote’s “A Christmas Memory” — well, sort of. It’s the sentiment the book begins with, as seven-year-old Buddy and his 60-something-year-old “friend” — they are each other’s only friend — go on a journey to bake 30 fruitcakes and send them to friends they’ve barely or never met (including President Roosevelt). 

The book actually begins with the words: “Imagine a morning in late November. A coming of winter morning more than twenty years ago.” And it unfolds slowly, but somehow also quickly, through time. 

Capote weaves, as only he can, a tale of saving pennies, foraging for pecans and heading to the swamp to buy an illegal bottle of whiskey from an intimidating man named Mr. Haha Jones. The two unlikely misfits bake their cakes, send them off and then get about the real business of Christmas: cutting down a tree and exchanging gifts. They’ve selflessly spent all their money on fruitcakes, including the whiskey and postage to far-flung locations (Borneo!), so the ornaments are handmade — construction paper cats, fish, watermelons and angels adorned with the tin foil from Hershey Bars — and their tinsel is cotton they harvested in August for the occasion. 

The gifts, too, are handmade. But more on that later.

The short story is copyrighted 1956, but the first time I read it was in December 2011. Our good friends, Kris and Tom, invited my husband and me, as well as Irene, another close friend, for dinner to share their newfound tradition of reading it aloud. We passed the book around in a circle. Kris fed a bottle to our baby daughter, just six weeks old. 

Kris Burns feeds Samantha Weber a bottle during the first reading of "A Christmas Memory." The reading became a tradition.

Kris discovered the story quite by accident while visiting the home of a friend’s mother. The house had nostalgia, Kris told me, a little Grey Gardens-y, like it had a grandeur that had been left behind. She was browsing a bookshelf and pulled it down. She read it in one sitting — and fell in love.

“It seemed to me like a story that was the essence of everything I want to believe about the world — and certainly the holidays,” she told me recently.





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